According to a study by the Federal Ministry of Family Affairs, 47 percent of all women want an equal partnership, but only 24 percent have it.
Mrs. Darling says: In view of the figures of this survey with the beautiful name “In the middle of life – “Wishes and realities of life”, one does not exactly get the impression that much has happened in recent years in the relationship between women and men. He also continues to entertain the family, they keep them going. It is rare to speak of a partnership in which both share the tasks of the household and children to an equal extent and also generate an income together. Dear women, we must finally enforce our own wishes and plans more strongly. But this is only possible if we better understand what sharing really means: namely, letting go and giving up. No ifs and buts. No complaining. And if the division of tasks doesn’t work out perfectly right away, that’s not a misfortune, but the happiness of learning. Running, working or making love probably didn’t work perfectly the first time.
Mr. Schatz says: No, I have nothing against equality at all. Quite the opposite! In fact, I’m glad that, unlike my father, I’m actually involved in the day-to-day life of our family and how our children grow up. And I’m glad that my wife earns not only recognition but also money with her work. Because I’m rather bored by one-sided dependencies. But what always annoys me are the confusing demands of the women. When flirting, we should make the first move, but please don’t be too lewd or dominant. Provide variety during sex, but stay nice and faithful. Many women want a soft alpha male, assertive and yet sensitive. Someone who can cook and raise children, but who is successful in his career. My tip to you, men: Tell the women when confusion and demands become too much for you. This is the only way for them and us to learn to say goodbye to perfection and optimisation mania.
