Similar partners attract each other and have more stable relationships, says the science program “World of Wonders”. The same humor is especially good for the couples.
Mrs. Darling says: It is often said that opposites attract. But more stable for a partnership are similarities and similarities. This creates self-affirmation for the individual and a “we-feeling” for the couple. We feel understood by the other and allow closeness and intimacy more easily. That’s why we look for partners who are similarly attractive and educated as we are, i.e. have the same “market value” or come from a similar stable. This also applies to hobbies, a similar worldview – and humour. A study by the science show “World of Wonders” shows that 60 percent of all happy couples are amused by the same things. Dear women, even if he leaves his socks behind again and makes you white-hot: Take it easy! You’ll find an opportunity to teach him a humorous lesson.
Mr. Schatz says: There are four reasons for a relationship to last: habit, sex, adventurousness, and humor. Habit brings security and peace, sex is fun and causes bonding, and a shared sense of adventure brings the necessary amount of excitement to the relationship game. Humor is most valuable when a couple manages to laugh with each other and at themselves. It is most dangerous when one laughs at the other. Dear men, even if you are not quite so interested in movies like “Welcome to the Hartmanns”, watch it together with your wife so that you can laugh together. This is really good for the relationship.
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